By Nurturing something, you earn the right to reap the benefits from it.
Nurturing a Plant, a Family or a Nation is all equally challenging and interesting. Choose the one that gives you Happiness today.
Studying the types of things that gives one the pleasure & happiness is vital, as nullifying that list is one's own responsibility. Whereas, studying the types of sadness producing things may become irrelevant if faith in the supreme can be reinforced!
Like in plants & trees, physical growth in humans too happen till a stage in life. Then the process of decay kicks in. Like in plants & trees, only during this decay process, the fruits of the labour during the growth stage is formed and made available . And the decayed physical components of humankind merging with its origin, ie, SOIL, ensures the sustainability of this wheel of Life.
BTW, the fruits are meant to be cherished to span new wheels of life, continuing the tradition.